I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and things seem to be going really well but I’ve recently noticed he only comes to see me after midnight. He spends his evenings with his friends and just sees me on his way home. He doesn’t ask me for sex so I know I’m not a booty call but I still don’t understand why he only sees me after midnight.
I may need more information here, but my first inclination is you need to stop whinging. Whilst some women complain that their man spends all his time with his boys and neglects them (the women), you are complaining of the order in which your man makes time for you.
I’m not saying I don’t understand how frustrating it can be to be left till last, I’m sure you feel like an afterthought. However, if you are just thankful that he is consistently making time for you and not just for sex, maybe you may enjoy his visits more. Maybe he’ll be inspired to come and see you earlier. Or maybe you’ll just come to realise he’s more of a night person and it has its perks.
How about you hang with some friends whilst he hangs with his. What’s really killing you is the waiting up. The reason you’re waiting, is because you’re not doing enough with your life. Take up a hobby. Sign up for a gym class. Spend more time searching for me online. Just use your time wisely and when you’re man shows up you’ll be happy to see him, he’ll be happy to see you and all will be well because all will end well.
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