Today I came across this article in the Daily Mail.
The first thing I would like to say about this is that I do NOT read the Daily Mail. I simply had the link sent to me and did not find it myself.
Secondly, Lord have mercy.
If you cannot be bothered to read the whole article, the premise of it is that a novelist by the name of Barbara Taylor Bradford recently wrote that the key to a successful marriage is respecting your husband. The formation of this article is to refute that in the most extreme terms. Katie Hopkins decided to write an article to not only tell the world that it is nonsense to respect your husband, but to detail the ways in which she berates her husband in public and thinks so low of him.
Now surprisingly I will not even focus on her. My problem is with the shell of a man who bothered to take part in this marriage. The first picture in the article shows the man sitting with his female husband with a look in his eyes that suggests he’s on parole for his God-given testicles to be returned to him.
I really must address this trend in under-empowered men. It’s easy to say men hold the top positions in the world and so all men are fine. Feminists will have you believe that only women suffer on this earth. What we have learnt from the election of Barrack Obama and other poster-boy projects is that a few people from a group doing well does not mean the entire group is doing well. Many men are suffering a complete lack of identity. They are shameless and worthless men with no sense of purpose or direction. They usually play out as the husbands of these horrible women and live out their lives as stupid second-class citizens.
Why do these men exist?
- The increasing numbers of young boys raised by Single Mothers teach young boys that they are surplus and not necessary (Special Edit: As always this point has offended women so I’m obligated to point out the other side of this coin regardless of the legitimacy of the point I’ve made. Yes, part of this problem are the guys who don’t stick around to teach their sons. However, whatever causes a couple to split up and for a father to be removed from the life of his children can be a range of factors from useless fathers to evil scheming mothers. What it doesn’t change is that often when mothers raise boys they pass on a lot of their negativity towards men to their sons whether it is based on truth or not.)
- Every sitcom that plays the matriarch as smart and together and the patriarch as a useless bumbling fool reinforces this belief.
- Feminisation of the work place and schools have meant that characteristics which suit men such as aggressiveness and competition are slowly being eroded in favour of emotional wellbeing and verbal communication.
- The perception that every man is a latent paedophile has meant that nursery and primary school teachers are mostly women, and so growing up young children rarely learn to respect men as authoritative figures.
- The double standards when it comes to violence. We teach young boys to NEVER hit a girl. Whereas even as adults we turn a blind eye to the reverse. Without full discourse, this only builds the idea that women are worth more than men and so we have a generation of young girls who believe that “Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them”.
Now if I could speak to the man in this article who is disrespected by his wife, I would simply ask him to consider why her first husband left her. If he couldn’t arrive at answer himself, I’d help him. It’s because she’s an evil human being. She’s not even good-looking enough to warrant her b*tch behaviour. Her self-confessed Tory upbringing causes her to look down on people because they like football or have a Cockney accent. What is there to look forward to in her?
Then I would tell him a personal story about a young boy who was also raised by a single mother. He also was well on his way to becoming a completely emasculated b*tch. However, luckily he was saved by stand-up comedy and the fact that it gave him time to think and evaluate his life. This combination of thought and analysis put him in a position where he was able to gain perspective on himself, become more comfortable about where he stands in the world and write a blog about it.
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